at the age of 6 her main duty are :
- brings tons of rice miles away from the seller to her house just by foot (-the rice will be sold then by her mom)
- washing all of her family members cloth (- she has mom,2 older sisters and 4 younger brothers)..huph how many cloths that will be?????
- cleaning up all around of her house (- i imagine u know about how wide javanese house???)
- In the morning about 4, her mom already in the market to sell some stuff. And she has to take care of family need for a hole day..etc : cooking, preparing breakfast of course watch over her brothers.
this duties go on for a long time. actually so miserable, but just understand her mother burden (- i mean, keep family members alive is not easy...). I bet her mother really thank full to have a daughter such a great little girl. Buuuuuuut..i don't really understand what her sisters thinking about their live???? huph...only God and they're know it....
let's continue this story,....
at the age of 20, she was married by a handsome,smart,cool young man (yipppiiiii.. great!!!! they will be a great couple... ). and as a new couple...beautiful live will greet them both...huhuhuhuhuhu
at the age of 21, she give birth a daughter. her life seems more beautiful (- thousands of flowers are fall from the bright blue sky..huhuhuhuhu)
at the age of 28, she give birth the 2nd child..a boy ladies and gentleman!!!cool!!! seems will be a perfect life isn't it?? but 4 month letter, her baby boy got an accident. he fall from his bad and that make some destruction to his back nerve so he can't move almost every part of his body. Lots ways were gone through to get the boy better, but still not working.
at the age of 29, she give birth the 3th child,.. a girl... her life getting hard...
at the age of 33, she give birth again..the 4th child...a girl ....harder..
2 years letter..her husband got bed off...a serious illness...bone cancer..then passed away...that time be the most shocking time of her live...raise up 4 children with no husband, with one defect child, with no job, with people jeered...
but her mother who really love her..still help her..loving her and her children..but not always of course..they lived separate..some time her mother send money to help her,some time God send some generous person to help her...
after her husband passed away..she build up her strength to raise up all her children..hard in the beginning..little by little it make her accustomed.
and now..one of her children is sitting here..and write down few story of her live...
proud to be her daughter...luv u mom
* it all just a few story...heheheh..next maybe i'll write more..
see u ...